“Extracurricular” means outside of the regular program of school courses. It includes sports and separate lessons to prom dresses and tuxedos and everything in between. The list can be quite long and parents have to decide what is included or excluded before they decide how they will share the cost. Will one parent control the decisions or must they be agreed upon? Is there a threshold before a sharing takes place? Do the children have a responsibility for some of the expenses? A lot of time and money can be spent in a divorce in this discussion. It is helpful to be thoughtful of your children’s needs while balancing the financial changes that comes ith any divorce.